Philippians 4:11-13: The Secret to Contentment Part 4
Devotions based on week 11 of Joy in the Journey: Contentment (WATCH HERE)
Philippians 4:11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do everything through him who gives me strength.
Secret # 3: Trust is a Must!
Stuff can be our security. If we have funds in the bank, it gives us a level of security that we will have enough to cover the rent or mortgage and put food on the table. Contentment is easier when you have a financial cushion. For those readers who have been down to the last few dollars in your account, it’s perhaps harder to trust, although sometimes that is all you can do.
Paul learned to be content in every situation, whether well fed or hungry, having plenty or not knowing where his next meal would come from.
What was his secret?
“I can do all things through him who gives me strength.”
While this passage is on plaques and daily verse lists and has broad application, the immediate context puts the strength to be content squarely on the shoulders of the Lord. Discontent will easily creep back into our hearts if our strength for contentment is based on external circumstances or realities. When our heart is grounded in the Lord, we have the strength to realize that whether the bank account is empty or full, we have a powerful God who will enable us to find contentment.
But why? What are some of the realities that strengthen our heart when we struggle with contentment?
First, trust God’s promises. Here’s one in Hebrews 13:5, Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” This is a promise that can be trusted. Wealth may and will eventually leave us, but God never will. We don’t have to sell our heart to stuff for peace, we can allow our heart to rest firmly in the promises of God.
Second, trust God’s provision. King David penned in Psalm 23:1, “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.” With the Lord at our side, we have the Creator of the universe at the ready to provide for us as he does for all of his creation. Sure he gives us the ability to work, a mind to think, and skills to use. These are part of his provision plan for us to use faithfully and be a blessing to others. When others pay us for the value we add, we simply give thanks that the Lord, Our Shepherd, has once again provided.
Third, trust God’s peace. The prophet Isaiah spoke God’s truth in Isaiah 26:3, “You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you. 4 Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord, is the Rock eternal.” When we trust, our heart can rest in God’s peace. It is not disrupted by plenty or panicked by lack. With the Lord taking care of all our needs, but especially the most important in our salvation, our heart, no matter what the circumstances can have peace because it trusts firmly in the power of the Lord.
Paul learned that contentment came from trust, not treasure. I pray that we all can learn the secret of contentment and experience this reality play out in our lives, “And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.”
Apply: Reflect on the three areas of trust. Which is most challenging for you? What is one way you can practice trust in that area?
Prayer: Lord, continue to teach me the secret to contentment. Lead my heart to trust you, your promises, your provision, and your peace. AMEN.
Philippians 4:11-13: The Secret to Contentment Part 3
Devotions based on week 11 of Joy in the Journey: Contentment (WATCH HERE)
Philippians 4:11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do everything through him who gives me strength.
Secret #2: Glance past the circumstance
Repentance turns us around…but then where do we look?
Our sinful nature challenges us to look back to the same thing that caused us to be discontent, but we have to look past what we might be experiencing to find contentment.
So where are we to focus to be content no matter what the circumstance?
First, focus on godliness, not greediness. 1 Timothy 6:6-8 But godliness with contentment is great gain. 7 For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. 8 But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that.
Once the Spirit of God has worked faith in Jesus in our hearts, our purpose in life shifts. No longer are we living to gain all the world has to offer, but living to give all the Lord has to offer the world. We are here to let the light of Jesus shine to make lives brighter and to be the salt of the earth to make lives better. Accumulation of wealth is not the goal, godliness is.
Second, focus on the future without stuff, but with your Savior. Paul in the verse above reminds us that we started this life without a diaper to our name. We leave this world by giving up all our earthly possessions. So hold onto them with a very loose grip. Never have I seen a hearse with a dead person’s possessions in tow behind it. Sure, some cultures bury possessions to be used in the afterlife, but every grave robber or archaeologists finds those very items still in the place of burial. Keep our heart from finding contentment in earthly gain by focusing on our heavenly reward.
Third, focus on God’s promises and provision. Jesus taught in Matthew 6:26 “Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?”
Discontent leads to worry because we are always uncertain as to if we have enough. Look at God’s track record. The creation he made, he also provides for. Nearly every day, I see birds at our feeders and am reminded of this promise. So, if the birds enjoy the provision of their heavenly Father, can I not expect the same? When tempted to worry and discontent, focus on God’s promise and his faithfulness to provide.
Fourth, invest your heart and life in following the Lord. King Solomon had all the riches of the world, yet he wrote this with his God-given wisdom, Proverbs 19:23 “The fear of the LORD leads to life: Then one rests content, untouched by trouble.” Contentment that rests in the Lord always is confident that their life is secure in grace. Sure, earthly trouble may find us, but eternal trouble will not. Our biggest need and problem is solved in the life, death and resurrection of Jesus.
So glance past the circumstance and remember that contentment is a state of mind not a state of mind not a state of being.
Apply: Which of these focal points will help you overcome discontent and life with stronger contentment?
Prayer: Lord, thank you for the power of your promises and provisions. Lead me to always rest in you to find contentment no matter what my earthly circumstances. AMEN.
Philippians 4:11-13: The Secret to Contentment Part 2
Devotions based on week 11 of Joy in the Journey: Contentment (WATCH HERE)
Philippians 4:11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do everything through him who gives me strength.
Secret #1: Repent of Discontent
Learning to be content means to first recognize what leads me to be discontent. Just like learning to play a sport and become more proficient at it necessitates a coach pointing out what is getting in the way of you improving. So, if we are to learn the secret to contentment, we must recognize the barriers to contentment and repent of discontent. Stop the habits of our heart that causes discontent and allow our heart to be led by God’s Spirit into contentment.
Reflect on these four things. All of them are indicators of discontent in our hearts:
First, is your heart captivated by material things? Perhaps at first read, your reaction is “No.” Great…however, let’s look a bit deeper. Do you find yourself unsettled by what you make at work and often think about making more? Do you find yourself being anxious about financial things and find it hard to stop that worry? Do you scroll social media and become fixed on what you wish you could buy or experience? These are just some of the symptoms of discontent. King Solomon wrote in Ecclesiastes 5:10 Whoever loves money never has money enough; whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with his income. This too is meaningless.
Second, do you find yourself tempted to dishonesty to gain materially? This doesn’t mean just outright stealing, but it may mean taking a few things from work because they “owe” you for extra time you put in. You maybe tempted to fib on a performance review, or unnecessarily speak against a coworker to gain a raise. Maybe you engage in a shady business deal to make more money or are tempted to overstate the work you actually did. It’s time to repent like John the Baptist called soldiers to repent from extortion: Luke 3:14 Then some soldiers asked him, “And what should we do?” [John the Baptist] replied, “Don’t extort money and don’t accuse people falsely—be content with your pay.”
Third, do you find yourself compromising your faith or the nurture of it to pursue material gain? Again, our quick response might be “No! Of course not!” However, is it a temptation to not spend time in the word because you have to get to work early? Do you take a promotion that takes you away from church most Sundays? Do you have to work so long that you have little time to nurture your family in the Word? A heart after money fails to be a heart after the Lord! Paul wrote to Timothy, 1 Timothy 6:10 Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.
Finally, do you find yourself discontent with how others perceive you? Do you find yourself chasing a status, a “like,” or the approval of people? Do you feel “less than” if the right people don’t give you accolades or recognition? Do you find yourself expending a lot of effort to please people, but feeling like it’s an impossible task? You might be discontent because you don’t have the status you think you should have. Paul wrote in Galatians 1:10 “Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ.”
It’s time to repent of all the things in your heart that cause discontent. Remember this truth: Stuff and status don’t satisfy.
Repent of discontent is secret number one to finding contentment!
Apply: Search your heart today. Which of the four things above resonantes as an issue in your heart? Take time today to repent. Confess your sin and turn from it and to your Savior. In him you have all you need!
Prayer: Forgive me for my discontent and all the ways my heart is captivated by stuff and status. Lead me away from a love of stuff to a greater love for you. Lead me to trust that I can turn from the sin of discontent to find contentment in your grace. AMEN.
Philippians 4:11-13: The Secret to Contentment Part 1
Devotions based on week 11 of Joy in the Journey: Contentment (WATCH HERE)
Philippians 4:11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do everything through him who gives me strength.
In central Texas, schools have started for the 2025-26 school year. The year can be met with disappointment that the freedom of summer is over or a sense of optimism for what the new year of learning brings.
Education is designed to be a process of learning. Kindergarteners don’t start with calculus math. Fifth graders aren’t expected to know the periodic table and chemical equations. However a kindergartener who is just learning to count to ten can, if they are open to learning, do complicated math equations by senior year in high school. They learn math. They learn chemistry. Content is taught. Homework is assigned. Assignments are completed. Experiential lab work is offered.
All of these things go into learning a subject.
Contentment is no different.
While one baby may be more “content” than another, it doesn’t take long when a small child desires something they don’t have. By mid-two’s an all out tantrum can ensue when they don’t get what they want. So much for contentment!
The reason that contentment has to be learned is because it doesn’t come naturally for our sinful nature.
Satan loves to get us to focus on the things we don’t have. Perhaps just take an inventory.
When you scroll through your social media, do you find yourself thinking, “I wish I had that,” or “I wish I could go there.” By scrolling through posts you see the “highlight” reel of someone else’s life and wish that your life could be the same or better. Discontent sinks in.
When you watch TV, YouTube, Netflix or your favorite channel, advertisements come up that try to convince you your life would be better if you bought their product. Some you have no interest in. But others get you thinking, “Yeah, I could really use that.” Marketing and advertisements can create discontent when we are convinced our life would be better than it is if we buy or do the right things.
When you wake up in the morning and moan that you have to go to work, head off to school or simply engage the day’s work at home, it could be a symptom of internal discontent. When we have a hard time seeing the positive and tend to focus on the negative, we may be struggling with discontent.
So we have to learn to be content. What do I do with all I see, experience, desire so that I move from discontent to contentment?
Learn the secret like Paul did. Really it’s a secret that lives in plain sight when we view life through God’s lens instead of our lens. God loves to give our hearts contentment as a gift of his Spirit. So the rest of this week we will explore the secret God wants us to learn to find contentment.
Apply: Today, notice what gives you contentment or what causes discontent. Make a chart of each on a piece of paper. What do you notice?
Prayer: Lord, open my heart to learn contentment from you! AMEN.
Philippians 4:10 Joy comes when someone cares!
Devotions based on week 11 of Joy in the Journey: Contentment (WATCH HERE)
Philippians 4:10 I rejoice greatly in the Lord that at last you have renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you have been concerned, but you had no opportunity to show it.
Joy comes when someone cares.
Words are easy. Actions are meaningful.
Paul was in prison in Rome and was always encouraged when he had the support and aid of those around. Paul rejoiced, not in his release, not in better conditions, not even in the hope of freedom, but in the renewed concern and support of the Philippians. They had sent a gift through Epaphroditus, and Paul recognized it not simply as money or resources, but as a tangible expression of their love and partnership in the gospel.
Joy is not found in possessions, but in the relationships God provides within the body of Christ. Paul did not rejoice because his bank account was now secure. He rejoiced because the gift showed that he was not forgotten. Their love and concern were evidence of their ongoing fellowship in Christ.
Notice that Paul says, “Indeed, you were concerned, but you had no opportunity to show it.” He acknowledges that their care was consistent, but their ability to express it had been limited. This distinction is important. Concern for others begins in the heart, and generosity flows out of that concern when God opens the door.
How essential it is to maintain a heart posture of readiness! Opportunities to serve, give, or encourage may not always be available. But when they come, the willingness of our hearts will determine whether we step into them with joy.
How many times have we thought of calling someone, writing a note, or giving a small gift—only to put it off until the opportunity slipped away? Paul’s joy was not simply that the Philippians remembered him; it was that they acted when the opportunity presented itself.
Every act of kindness, every gift, every expression of concern is a reflection of God’s provision. When someone cares for us, we should not only thank them, but also rejoice in the Lord who moved their heart. When we care for others, we become instruments of God’s love and a reminder of His faithfulness.
Unfortunately, we can be indifferent to the needs of others. We may say we care, but we do not act. We may have good intentions, but we fail to follow through. Our selfishness gets exposed.
Paul rejoices because the Gospel is at work in and through the Philippians. They just didn’t express a desire, they acted on the desire. The love and forgiveness of Christ shone through. In Christ, God has never forgotten us. His concern for us is not just a thought. It is action. He gave His Son to meet our deepest need, the forgiveness of sins. Jesus came, not just with words of love, but with the cross and empty tomb to prove that His concern is real and eternal. Because of His grace, we can overcome selfishness and be empowered to serve others with genuine love.
Application: Who in your life might be waiting for a reminder that they are not forgotten? Perhaps it’s a missionary, a family member walking through hardship, or a friend quietly battling loneliness. A small act of kindness like an email, a meal, or a handwritten note can become a channel of God’s love and a reason for them to rejoice in the Lord.
Prayer: Gracious Lord, thank You that Your concern for me is never just an idea but an active, saving love shown in Christ. Forgive me for the times I have ignored opportunities to care for others. Give me a heart that is always ready, and eyes to see the needs around me. May my concern for others reflect Your own love and bring joy to those I serve. In Jesus’ name, Amen.