Say Goodbye to the Old Self
This week’s devotions are based on Week 2 of Building Together: “Some Things Have to Go!” (WATCH HERE)
Ephesians 4:20 You, however, did not come to know Christ that way. 21 Surely you heard of him and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. 22 You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; 23 to be made new in the attitude of your minds; 24 and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.
Yesterday we talked about tearing out the old way of thinking. Today Paul takes us one step further. Our thinking matters because what we believe about ourselves eventually shapes how we live. That is why Paul tells the Ephesians to “put off your old self” and “put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.”
That language can sound like changing clothes. Take off the old. Put on the new. Paul is describing a change that God has already begun in us through Christ. The Christian life is not simply about becoming a slightly improved version of the person we were before. In Christ, we have been given a completely new identity.
That is good news because we often carry the old self around with us. We remember our failures. We replay our mistakes. We allow our past to define us. Sometimes we even convince ourselves that a particular sin, attitude, or weakness is simply “who I am.” We may say, “That’s just the way I am,” as though change is impossible.
But Paul says otherwise.
The old self belongs to the old way of life. It is being corrupted by deceitful desires. It promises satisfaction but leaves us wanting more. It tells us that we will be happier if we get our own way, but it often leaves us more empty. It tells us that holding onto anger will protect us, that refusing to forgive will make things right, or that giving in to our desires will finally satisfy us. Yet those desires deceive us.
In Christ, we have something completely different.
Paul says in 2 Corinthians 5:17, “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” Notice who makes us new. Christ does. Our new identity is not something we create for ourselves. It is a gift of God’s grace.
That changes the way we approach repentance. We do not confess our sins because we are trying to convince God to love us. We confess them because God already loves us in Christ. Jesus has carried our sins to the cross, paid for them completely, and risen from the grave. Because of Him, we can let go of the old instead of continuing to defend it.
Think about renovating a house. Sometimes you discover something behind the walls that needs to go. You might find rotten wood, damaged wiring, or plumbing that needs to be replaced. You could cover it up and hope nobody notices. But eventually the problem will show itself again.
God’s Word does not simply cover our sin. It exposes it so that Christ can deal with it. He brings our sin into the light, forgives us, and continues His work of renewal in us.
So today, say goodbye to the old self. Not because you have to earn a new identity, but because Christ has already given you one. You belong to Him. You are forgiven. You are His new creation.
You don’t have to keep wearing clothes that no longer belong to you.
Reflect: What part of your past or old way of living do you sometimes allow to define who you are? How does knowing that you are a new creation in Christ change the way you approach your sins and failures?
Prayer: Lord Jesus, thank You for making me a new creation through Your death and resurrection. Forgive me for the times I continue to hold onto the old self and allow my past, my failures, or my sinful desires to define me. Help me put off what no longer belongs and put on the new life You have given me. Renew my heart and mind through Your Word, and help me live each day as someone who belongs to You. Amen.
Tear Out the Old Thinking
This week’s devotions are based on Week 2 of Building Together: “Some Things Have to Go!” (WATCH HERE)
Ephesians 4:17–19 So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. 18 They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. 19 Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more.
Paul begins this section of Ephesians with a strong warning. He tells Christians that they must no longer live as the Gentiles do, “in the futility of their thinking.” The word futility describes something empty, worthless, or unable to accomplish what it promises. Paul is not saying that people themselves are worthless. He is saying that a way of thinking that leaves God out of the picture ultimately leads nowhere.
That is an important word for us because we live in a world filled with ideas that sound good. We hear that happiness comes from getting what we want, that truth is whatever we decide it is, that we should follow our hearts, and that we should define ourselves however we choose. Some of these ideas may sound reasonable. Some may even contain pieces of truth. But Paul reminds us that not every way of thinking leads to life.
Think about walking into an older home that has not been updated in decades. You might see worn carpet, outdated cabinets, faded wallpaper, and fixtures that no longer fit the house. Whether you think those things need to go depends on what you believe the house should look like. If you love the way things looked in the 1970s, you might keep them. If you have a different vision, you start reaching for the crowbar.
The same thing happens spiritually. What we think determines what we believe needs to change. Our sinful nature often becomes comfortable with things that God calls us to leave behind. We can begin to think that something is acceptable simply because it is common. We can become so accustomed to the world’s way of thinking that we no longer recognize how far it has moved from God’s truth.
That is why Paul says in Romans 12:2, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind.” God does not leave us to figure out truth on our own. He gives us His Word. He reveals Himself in Christ. Jesus says, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life” (John 14:6). God’s Word gives us a true foundation for understanding ourselves, our relationships, our purpose, and the world around us.
This renewal is not something we accomplish by trying harder. It is God’s gracious work in us through His Word. The Holy Spirit uses that Word to expose our sinful thinking, lead us to repentance, and continually point us back to Christ and His forgiveness.
So today, don’t simply ask, “What am I doing wrong?” Ask, “What is shaping the way I think?” What voices are influencing you? What ideas have become so familiar that you no longer stop to examine them against God’s Word?
Demo Day begins in the mind. Some old thinking needs to be torn out so that Christ can continue building something new in us.
Reflect
- What influence in your life most shapes the way you think and view the world?
- Is there an attitude or belief you have become comfortable with that God’s Word is calling you to reconsider?
Prayer: Lord Jesus, forgive me for the times I have allowed the thinking of the world to shape my heart more than Your Word. Renew my mind through Your truth. Help me recognize what is futile and empty, and give me wisdom to see what is good, true, and pleasing to You. Keep me rooted in Christ and His promises, and help me live each day according to the new life You have given me. Amen.
Building Together: Rooted in Christ, Built Together
This week’s devotions are based on Week 1 of Building Together: “It Takes ALL of us” (WATCH HERE)
John 15:1–8 “I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. 2 He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. 3 You are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you. 4 Remain in me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.
5 “I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. 6 If anyone does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. 7 If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you. 8 This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.
A building can have beautiful bricks, carefully designed walls, and impressive details, but none of it matters if there is no solid foundation. In the same way, the church can have ministries, programs, activities, gifted people, and a strong sense of community, but everything depends on one essential reality:
We must remain connected to Christ.
Jesus gives us a powerful picture in John 15. He describes Himself as the vine and His followers as the branches. A branch does not produce fruit by working harder or trying to become more fruitful on its own. It produces fruit because it remains connected to the vine.
Jesus says, “Remain in me, as I also remain in you” (John 15:4).
That is the foundation underneath everything we have talked about this week.
We guard unity because we belong to Christ.
We use our gifts because Christ has given them to us.
We build one another up because Christ is building His body through us.
Everything flows from Him.
Sometimes we can become so focused on doing things for Christ that we forget that the most important thing is simply remaining in Christ. We can become busy serving while becoming spiritually empty. We can work on the building while neglecting the foundation.
Jesus reminds us that “apart from me you can do nothing” (John 15:5).
Remaining in Christ means continuing to receive what He gives us. We return to His Word. We hear His promises. We remember our Baptism. We receive His forgiveness. We gather with His people around His Word and Sacrament. We stay connected to the One who gives us life.
And as we remain connected to Christ, something begins to grow.
Paul tells the Colossians to “clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience” and then says, “over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity” (Colossians 3:12, 14).
Notice how much this sounds like the kind of life Paul described earlier in Ephesians 4.
Humility.
Gentleness.
Patience.
Love.
Unity.
These aren’t simply behaviors we force ourselves to produce. They are the fruit that grows as Christ works in us.
And a Christian doesn’t become more Christlike simply by trying harder to look like Christ. We remain connected to Christ, and He works through us.
So as this week comes to an end, return to the simplest and most important question:
Am I remaining in Christ?
Because when we are rooted in Christ, we can be built together.
Reflect
- What are some things that can distract me from remaining connected to Christ? What could I do this week to make time for His Word, prayer, and the gifts He gives through worship and fellowship?
- Which quality from Colossians 3:12–14, compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, or love does Christ most need to grow in me right now? Who might experience His love through me as that quality grows?
Prayer
Lord Jesus, You are the true vine, and I am one of Your branches. Thank You for giving me life through Your grace and for connecting me to You through Your Word and Sacraments. Forgive me for the times I try to live and serve in my own strength. Keep me rooted in You. Grow in me compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, forgiveness, and love. Use the gifts You have given me to build up the people around me. Make our congregation a people who remain rooted in Christ and are willing to be built together for Your glory. Amen.
Building Together: Speaking Truth in Love
This week’s devotions are based on Week 1 of Building Together: “It Takes ALL of us” (WATCH HERE)
Ephesians 4:14–16 Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming. 15 Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ. 16 From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.
Truth and love are sometimes treated as opposites. We hear people say, “I just want to speak the truth,” as though love isn’t part of the conversation. Others avoid difficult truths because they don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. But Scripture refuses to separate the two.
Truth without love can become a weapon. Love without truth can become an indulgence.
God calls us to something better: truth spoken and lived in love.
Paul says that spiritual maturity means we are no longer like children who are “tossed back and forth by the waves and blown here and there by every wind of teaching” (Ephesians 4:14). Instead, we are to “speak the truth in love” and “grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ” (Ephesians 4:15).
Truth gives us something solid to stand on. God’s Word tells us what is true about God, about ourselves, about sin, and about salvation. It doesn’t simply tell us what we want to hear. Second Timothy reminds us that Scripture is useful for “teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness” (2 Timothy 3:16).
Sometimes the truth hurts because it exposes something in us that needs to change.
But notice how God gives us that truth. He doesn’t expose our sin so that He can shame us. He exposes our sin so that He can lead us to our Savior.
God loves us enough to tell us the truth, and He tells us the truth because He loves us.
That becomes our model for our relationships with others.
Speaking truth in love doesn’t mean avoiding difficult conversations. Sometimes love requires us to say something that is difficult to hear. But it also doesn’t mean using truth as a weapon to win an argument, prove we’re right, or make someone feel small.
Before we speak, we can ask:
Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it loving? Will this help build the other person up?
Sometimes truth needs to be spoken.
Sometimes love means listening.
Sometimes the most loving thing we can say is, “I’m sorry.”
Sometimes it is, “I forgive you.”
Sometimes it is, “Can I share something I’m concerned about?”
And sometimes it is simply, “I’m here for you.”
When truth and love come together, relationships become healthier and the church becomes stronger. We become less vulnerable to deception because we are grounded in God’s Word, and we become more united because we aren’t using truth to tear one another down.
Truth grounds us. Christ grows us. Love builds us.
Today, ask God to help you become someone who can be trusted with both truth and love.
Reflect
- Is there a relationship in my life where I have avoided speaking a necessary truth, or where I have spoken truth without enough love? What might Christlike truth and love look like in that relationship?
- When God’s Word corrects or challenges me, do I receive it as condemnation or as the loving voice of my Savior calling me back to Him?
Prayer: Lord Jesus, You are the truth, and You have loved me enough to tell me the truth about my sin and my need for You. Thank You for giving me Your Word to guide, correct, teach, and strengthen me. Forgive me when I use truth to hurt others or hide behind love to avoid difficult truths. Give me wisdom to know when to speak, courage to speak what is right, and compassion to speak with love. Help me remain grounded in Your Word and grow to reflect Your love. Use my words to build others up and point them toward You. Amen.
Building Together: Every Gift Has a Purpose
This week’s devotions are based on Week 1 of Building Together: “It Takes ALL of us” (WATCH HERE)
Romans 12:4–8 Just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, 5 so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. 6 We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man’s gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. 7 If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; 8 if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully.
Imagine a body where every part decided it wasn’t really needed. The eye says, “I don’t need the hand.” The ear says, “I’m not important.” The foot says, “Someone else can do my job.” Before long, the body wouldn’t function the way it was designed to function.
Paul uses this picture to describe the church. We are not a collection of independent Christians who happen to worship in the same place. We are the body of Christ, and every member has a place.
Romans 12 says, “We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us.” Notice where those gifts come from: grace. God gives them. They aren’t trophies we earn or abilities we develop so that we can become more important than someone else. They are gifts entrusted to us so that we can serve others.
That means there is no room for comparison.
The person who teaches shouldn’t look down on the person who serves. The person who leads shouldn’t think the person who encourages is less important. The person who gives generously may never stand in front of the congregation. The person who quietly prays for others may never receive recognition. Yet each one is contributing something the body needs.
Paul says, “The body is not made up of one part but of many” (1 Corinthians 12:14).
Different gifts. Same purpose.
We can also fall into the opposite mistake. Sometimes we look at someone else’s gifts and think, I could never do that, so I must not have anything to offer. But God never intended you to be someone else. He didn’t give you someone else’s gifts because He has given you gifts of your own.
You don’t have to do everything. In fact, you can’t. No single person can carry the entire mission of the church. That’s why God gives gifts throughout the body.
Your gift may seem ordinary to you because it comes naturally. But what seems ordinary to you may be exactly what someone else needs.
An encouraging word can strengthen someone who is struggling. A meal can remind a family that they are not alone. A willingness to serve can make ministry possible. A generous gift can provide an opportunity. A listening ear can help someone see God’s grace in the middle of a difficult season.
A gift doesn’t have to be impressive to be important.
The question isn’t, “Do I have enough to offer?”
The question is, “What has God placed in my hands, and how can I use it for someone else?”
Christ has made you part of His body. He has given you a place. Nobody does everything…but, everybody does something!
Reflect
- What gifts, abilities, experiences, or opportunities has God given me that could be used to serve and strengthen others?
- Is there a gift or ability I have been keeping on the sidelines? What is one specific way I could put it to work this week?
Prayer: Gracious God, thank You for making me part of the body of Christ and for giving me gifts according to Your grace. Forgive me when I compare myself with others or convince myself that what I have to offer isn’t important. Help me recognize the gifts You have placed in my hands. Give me a willing heart to use them, not for recognition or praise, but to serve others and build up Your Church. Show me where You are calling me to do my part, and use even the smallest acts of service for Your purposes. Amen.
