False Promises of Pride
Daily Devotions based on the Sermon Series: “Timely Teaching for Turbulent Times”
Week 3 of 6: “The Impact of Humility!”
Full Sunday message, CONTEMPORARY or TRADITIONAL
THIS WEEK: Pride and the Proverbs
There’s a way to achieve for everything.
Want to maximize life? Live to the fullest.
Want to be the top of your game? Hire a coach.
Want to be financially independent? Learn investing.
At face value there is nothing wrong with maximizing life, being at the top of your game or financially independent. However the motivation and path to these ends can bring a person down or bring a person honor.
All these lures of life can captivate the ego’s of our heart. We believe the way to get the most out of life is to beat others to the top. We believe to be the best in the game, we have to put down everyone else. To be financially independent, one has to be a cutthroat in making money. Behind all these is the drive of pride to gain the recognition, wealth, honor and life can bring a person.
As we’ve seen this week in the Proverbs, they turn the tables.
Proverbs 29:23 A man’s pride brings him low, but a man of lowly spirit gains honor.
And then another:
Proverbs 22:4 Humility and the fear of the Lord bring wealth and honor and life.
Huh?
Is the recipe that simple? Humility and fear of the Lord bring wealth and honor and life?
Yep.
Why?
Humility allows us to learn from others and serve others. We begin to realize the greatest joy in life is as Zig Ziglar put it: You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want. Or better yet Jesus told his disciples: Mark 9:35, “If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all.”
Putting the Lord first allows him to realize everything on this earth is his (Psalm 24:1) and everything we have is a gift from him (James 1:17). Our hearts shift from storing up treasures on earth to storing up treasures in heaven (Matthew 6:19-20).
A fear of the Lord realizes that more important than the temporary things of life is an eternity of life with Jesus. So we seek after those things that give eternal life, not just pleasures in this life. “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life” (John 6:68).
We spend a lot of effort seeking wealth, honor and life…perhaps it’s time to let go of the false promise of pride and practice humility and the fear of the Lord. In these, the Lord promises to bring wealth, honor and life.
Apply: Commit today to practice humility and prioritize the fear of the Lord. Journal how the Lord blesses this renewed focus.
Prayer: Spirit of God, drive out all pride from my heart and replace it with humility and the fear of the LORD. Amen
Stop Arguing!
Daily Devotions based on the Sermon Series: “Timely Teaching for Turbulent Times”
Week 3 of 6: “The Impact of Humility!”
Full Sunday message, CONTEMPORARY or TRADITIONAL
THIS WEEK: Pride and the Proverbs
“You’re wrong!”
“No, I’m not!”
“Yes, you are!”
Ever been in an argument that you are convinced you were right? AND it was so irritating that the other person wouldn’t back down?
Is it possible that pride was involved? Is it probable that you or the other person was unwilling to be curious about the other’s position?
Proverbs 13:10 says, “Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice.”
How does pride breed quarrels?
Pride leads me to think I always am right or need to be right. Pride closes my ears to hearing another person’s point of view to honestly evaluate it. Pride seeks to win the argument to satisfy my ego. Pride can’t look foolish, even when I am on the wrong side of the argument.
You might even say pride is looking for quarrels. Proverbs says pride ‘breeds’ quarrels. Quarrels are the offspring of pride. How is that? Pride seeks to be validated. Often validation comes from winning the argument. Validation comes from putting another person “in their place.” Validation comes by always having the right answer. So quarrels provide a forum for me to validate myself that I am right and of superior skill or intellect.
But few people like arguing…let alone arguing with a person full of pride.
Arguing because of pride is foolish. It limits your understanding and ruins relationships.
On the other hand, “wisdom is found in those who take advice.” Those who take advice are willing to be wrong. They are humble enough to ask questions and inquire of information they don’t know. They are interested in winning an argument, they are interested in discovering the truth. They value people as ones who have information they don’t. They are willing to listen to others experience and wisdom and put it into practice in their own life.
They don’t want to win an argument, they want to gain wisdom.
Pride shuts down the gaining of wisdom. Humility gains wisdom by shutting down pride.
Apply: What wisdom can you gain from someone today? Challenge yourself to engage one person with a few questions to seek advice on a question or project you are working on.
Prayer: Lord, drive out the pride in me that always has to win an argument. Replace it with your Spirit to grow in wisdom by seeking advice from the people you put in my life. AMEN.
What an Honor!
Daily Devotions based on the Sermon Series: “Timely Teaching for Turbulent Times”
Week 3 of 6: “The Impact of Humility!”
Full Sunday message, CONTEMPORARY or TRADITIONAL
THIS WEEK: Pride and the Proverbs
It’s great to be recognized.
For most people receiving recognition is a wonderful feeling. It is exciting to receive a raise at work. It is a memorable moment when you receive the “Most Valuable Player” award from your team. To receive a purple heart for valor in military service, is a signature moment in one’s career.
They all make you proud.
Receiving honor makes you feel proud. However, being prideful doesn’t bring honor.
Ironic, isn’t it?
The Proverbs say (11:2) When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.
Pride leads one to respond to a raise, “I deserved that more than anyone else.” Pride in an athlete responds, “It’s about time I was recognized as the MVP. I deserve it more than my teammates.” Pride in the soldier responds, “I have always fought harder than the rest of my platoon.”
If the giver of these awards would have known pride lurked in their hearts, they would not have received the awards. Being honored brings pride. Being proud brings disgrace.
Why?
The proud think more highly of themselves than they ought. The proud seek after honor. They desire to be recognized. They step on and over people to try to receive further accolades and recognition.
Solomon knew that the pathway to honor wasn’t with a heart of pride. Rather just the opposite. Humility has to come before honor.
Proverbs 15:33 The fear of the Lord teaches a man wisdom, and humility comes before honor.
In all three of those situations, it is nearly a given that part of the reason they received the reward was because their heart was humble. The employee just always showed up and gave their best…and was honored with a raise. The athlete worked hard on and off the field, encouraging and helping teammates be their best…and was given the MVP award. The soldier was willing to give up his or her life for others and recognized for their brave, yet humble actions in the midst of battle.
Humility precedes honor.
But did you notice what else comes from humility? Wisdom.
One who is humble is willing to learn. They are willing to seek and listen to advice. They value the people around them and perceive everyone as one who is valuable and can add value to them. As a result they gain knowledge…and see how that is applied…i.e. wisdom.
One more thing. Wisdom doesn’t just come from learning from others. It comes from the “fear of the LORD.” “The fear of the Lord teaches a man wisdom.” Only when I listen to what the LORD has to say, humbly submit to it, and with his help live it out does honor come. It may not come from people, but it will come from the LORD.
What an honor that will be!
Apply: Am I seeking honor? Time to let go of seeking honor and rather spend time seeking wisdom from the fear of the LORD. Ask the LORD to help you implement it every day.
Prayer: LORD, thank you for pointing out where true honor comes from. It doesn’t come from my ego seeking praise, but from my heart fearing you and seeking after your wisdom. AMEN.
Are You a Mocker?
Daily Devotions based on the Sermon Series: “Timely Teaching for Turbulent Times”
Week 3 of 6: “The Impact of Humility!”
Full Sunday message, CONTEMPORARY or TRADITIONAL
THIS WEEK: Pride and the Proverbs
What was the insulting name of your generation? If you really wanted to put someone down what would it be?
Whatever mom or dad told you to NOT call your brother or sister, right?
Did you know the inspired words of Scripture call people names…insulting names?
Jesus called the Pharisees “hypocrites” and “White-washed tombs” (Matthew 23:27)
The Apostle Paul quotes regarding the Cretans, “Cretans are always liars, evil beasts, and lazy gluttons.” (Titus 1:12)
Solomon calls a proud, arrogant person a “Mocker.”
Proverbs 21:24 The proud and arrogant man—“Mocker” is his name; he behaves with overweening pride.
It’s interesting all the characteristics of a “mocker” Solomon describes (he no doubt had interaction with some!). Here’s just seven references from the Proverbs:
- They mock sin (Prov 14:9)
- They mock judgment (Prov 19:28).
- The mocker is haughty (Prov 21:24), incorrigible (Prov 9:7), resistant to all reproof (Prov 9:8; 15:12), and hating any rebuke (Prov 13:1).
- Wisdom and knowledge easily elude the mocker (Prov 14:6).
- So despicable is the scorner that he may be labelled as odious to all men (Prov 24:9).
- The Proverbs suggests he should be punished by hitting so that the easily persuaded naive fool may benefit from the lesson (Prov 19:25; 21:11).
- One good way to remove contention from a group is to eject the scorner (mocker), and then “strife and reproach will cease” (Prov 22:10).[1]
Do you know someone who fits this description?
Do YOU fit this description?
Did you know God is a Mocker?
Proverbs 3:34 The LORD…mocks proud mockers but gives grace to the humble.
The Lord scorns the mocker. He detests them.
He knows they think they have everything figured out. They think the law of God doesn’t apply to them. They are confident in themselves and resist anyone correcting them. They seem like they know everything, but they are fools. They cause contention in a group. They don’t need God. They mock God.
All of this the LORD detests. He cannot bless Mockers. In fact in Psalm 1:1 says:
Psalm 1:1 Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers.
God can not bless a mocker. However, the Lord (as Proverbs 3:34 says) blesses the humble with grace.
- Those that find confidence in the LORD, not self.
- Those that delight in the law of God, not despise it.
- Those that are filled with the fruit of the Spirit, not the heart of sin.
These are the humble that receive God’s undeserving and unending love, his grace.
Apply: Ask the Lord to drive out from your being the heart of the Mocker and replace it with the heart of the humble.
Prayer: Lord, thank you for the wisdom of the Proverbs to call my prideful heart a “Mocker.” Renew me by your Spirit to carry the name of “Humble Child of God.” Amen.
[1] Kaiser, W. C. (1999). 1113 לִיץ. R. L. Harris, G. L. Archer Jr., & B. K. Waltke (Eds.), Theological Wordbook of the Old Testament (electronic ed., p. 479). Chicago: Moody Press.
Be One of Them!
Daily Devotions based on the Sermon Series: “Timely Teaching for Turbulent Times”
Week 3 of 6: “The Impact of Humility!”
Full Sunday message, CONTEMPORARY or TRADITIONAL
THIS WEEK: Pride and the Proverbs
We all can notice them.
You know who I’m talking about. The person who seems too good for us? The person who doesn’t give us the time of day? The person who seems to know it all?
Don’t you hate people like this? (I know, “hate” is a strong word.)
But you’re not one of them, right?
It’s easy to notice it in others…but hard to admit it lurks within us too.
The reason we notice it in others, is because inside our hearts WE want to be the popular one. WE want to be noticed by everyone. WE want to have all the answers.
Pride and arrogance lurks within each one of us.
And God hates it.
Pride and faith do not fit together. Pride relies on self. Faith relies on the Lord.
That’s why the Lord hates pride and arrogance. It captures our heart with trust of self instead of trust in him. He hates pride and arrogance because it leads to sinful actions and sinful thought…all of which break the relationship he so desires with each one of us.
Solomon realized that what mattered more than trusting himself and seeking the praise of people was trusting the Lord and doing what pleases him.
Proverbs 8:13 To fear the Lord is to hate evil; I hate pride and arrogance, evil behavior and perverse speech.
Pride loves to look at others and look down on them to make ourselves look better. We fear that if we are not a bit better, a bit smarter, a bit more accepted than those around us we lose our value, significance and worth.
We don’t need to find our significance, value and worth in others. It has been given to us. It is found in our relationship with the LORD. It is found in our trust in the Lord. It is found in our love for the Lord. These are the people the Lord loves.
Be one of them.
Apply: Start each morning with a reflection in your mirror. Ask the Lord to mold your heart to love the things he loves and hate the things he hates and humbly reflect that in your life today.
Prayer: Lord, thank you for coming down to serve us so that we might always be with you. Forgive us for our pride and arrogance. Replace it in our hearts with a true fear, love and trust in you! AMEN.